Posts By :


If You Had One Wish…

150 150 tommy

Happiness Pro-Tip of the Day

Today’s Pro-Tip is coming to you in a question


If a genie popped out of a lamp and granted you one wish, what would it be? (and it can’t be unlimited wishes)

The bottom line comes down to this, no matter what your wish is…you are really wishing for happiness.

This is because, underneath it all, we all want to feel good.


We can choose the temporary escapes of life. The things in life that bring us temporary happiness, or we can choose to grown each day in life, progress and create a happiness that sticks.


You have to be the driver of your life. You have to choose to feel good each day. You have to choose a happiness that sticks.

I encourage you with this, choose to be happy right now because someday may never come.

Do things now to increase your happiness!



God is Not Your Cosigner

150 150 tommy

Happiness Pro Tip of the day

Do not Judge!

This is a direct quote from Jesus.

Which is IRONIC, because Jesus’s followers are some of the most judgmental people.

This is not the point that I am making today. The reason that I am saying this is because, judging people is the #1 thing that will destroy your happiness. Worrying about others and what they are doing will never increase your happiness.

Here are a couple reasons why:

  • Nobody ever gave you the authority to judge. You are not God! And you also cannot use God as your cosigner to judge. He did not ordain you to judge others. Worry about yourself and stay on your side of the fence.
  • When you judge someone this is saying something about who you are, not who the other person is.
  • We think we have the RIGHT to judge and we do not

We are born with 2 things.

  1. A need to be alright
  2. A need to be right

Kill both of these! We are going to die! This is pre-determined! So just enjoy life! Enjoy the ride! In addition, in order to be right you have to make somebody else wrong. We are not ordained in making the decision of who or what is right and wrong.

Do you Want to be happy? Stop Judging!

Do something good today. Leave other people alone!

And instead worry about yourself and being the best you can be!




The Best Personal Development Book of All Time

150 150 tommy

I have read thousands of personal development and religious books over the past twenty plus years.

The one book that stands out above all the others is, “Textbook for Alcoholics Anonymous.”

It should have been called, “Twelve Steps to Peace,” because the first 164 pages are pure gold!

The first 164 pages have nothing to do with alcohol, but instead provide the most effective process in ridding our lives of any fears or resentments.

I have seen people that are completely incapable of forgiving others and removing fear from their lives.

This book outlines the best process, the best spiritual growth, and the best personal development program I have ever read. Forget about the alcohol part! If you want to remove fears and resentments from your life, there is nothing more effective!



Do You Want Justice?

150 150 tommy

Happiness Pro Tip of the day

You have to remove things from your life that do not increase your happiness.

For example, if you love justice for others you will not be happy.

What I mean by this is, we often want mercy for ourselves, but justice for others. This is the exact opposite of what will make our lives better.

Let me encourage you with this:

Find a way to love mercy for others, and you will live a happier life.

The Greatest Word

150 150 tommy

Happiness Pro-Tip of the Day

Do you want to be a happy human? Do you want to be who you were created to be, and not who others want you to be?

How to get started?

Become a black belt in autonomy and start living your happiest life.

If we knew how powerful our thoughts were-We would never think another negative thought in our life

150 150 tommy

Happiness pro-tip of the day

Those of you who just want to enjoy this life, I am talking to you!

Do you want to be happy?

Then the single most important skill you can have in this life is to learn how to guide your thoughts.

Lost Touch With Reality

150 150 tommy

Happiness pro-tip of the day

I was told I lost touch with reality?

We all have a different perception of what reality is, so of course it is possible to lose touch with another persons perception of reality.

If you want to be happy you have to stop letting people tell you what your reality is and realize that you create your own reality in this world.

Sunday Sermon-Jesus never bitched about the weather. Be like Jesus

150 150 tommy

Quit bitchin about the weather.

Change your mindset and decide that no matter what the temperature may be, that you are going to enjoy it.

This same mindset can relate to anything. Change your mindset and enjoy life even more.

Build Your Tribe Carefully

150 150 tommy

It takes a tribe to raise a dream -Rob Bell

Life is a ten round fight. Building the right tribe in this life is an important key to increasing your happiness. I have two key components to pay close attention to when building your tribe.

  1. who offers a hand when you are knocked down and who watches
  2. Who claps for you when you win

Life is a ten round fight. Build your tribe and increase your happiness!

The Voice in Your Head Isn’t You

150 150 tommy

You’re not crazy, we all have voices in our heads. There’s a voice that’s constantly talking, but that voice is not you.

You are the observer listening to the voice in your head. Realize that voice isn’t always steering you in the right way and learn how to constructively calm that voice down.

  • 1
  • 2
Show Buttons
Hide Buttons